I just listened to an amazing another amazing podcast
from Dr. Gary Chapman; it’s called
Building Relationships. I've only listened to 3 episodes so far but each time there is a different featured
speaker/author and topic. Tonight I heard the episode from April 2, 2016 with
Dr. Kathy Koch. I saw her speak at the Hearts at Home conference last fall. She's
an amazing author and I have another one of her books called “Growing up Social”,
but in this podcast she was talking about her book “8 Great Smarts” tells about
the 8 different ways that your child can be gifted.
She explained what each different smart is and different
ways that you can connect with your child and foster that giftedness and if
they're not strong in one area you can get them interested in it. I totally
loved it and I’ve decided that I'm going to be buying a copy of that book for
both of Addison's teachers this year. I think that if you take that extra step to
really understand your kids as a parent, then you can foster excitement in them
for everything around them.
I really feel like some people may have an issue with
helicopter parenting and that sort of thing, but I don't feel like I'm a helicopter
parent. Instead, I feel that I am an involved parent because I feel that
especially in this age with so much information available, I feel like it's my
duty and it's my responsibility not just to hum along and give her clothes,
give her food, send her to school. That’s the bare minimum. It's my
responsibility to identify the strengths and the uniqueness that God has put in
her and help her develop them. It's also my responsibility to find those areas
where she is not as strong and to help her identify that and work through those
challenges.
I think some parents just kind of float by with the absolute
minimum needed to raise their kids and I think that with all of the knowledge
out there – there's books, there's
podcasts, there's so many different things – why not take advantage of all that
knowledge and truly pour your heart and your passion into making your children
become the best people that they can be?? Our kids are going to be the adults
of tomorrow; if we want a better country, if we want a better world as we're
getting old and gray, then we better put the work in now to be creating these amazing
children that we are blessed with.
That's one of my passions. I am a stay-at-home mom and
I'm blessed with all day to be able to do that with Addie and spend time with
her. If I wasn't doing that with my day then I don't think that I would be taking
advantage of the gift that I have in being a stay-at-home mom. If our kids’
teachers aren't fully immersed and reading books like 8 Great Smarts on how to foster
excitement and intelligence and all sorts of different gifts in the children
that they are teaching every single day…then I think that they're in the wrong
profession-plain and simple! If you don't have a passion for the kids that you
teach every time and wanting to make them the best people possible and leaving
an imprint on them, a positive imprint on them, then you need to stop teaching.
Because you're sure not in it for the money, so I don't know why you’re there
if you're not there for the kids and making them better people.
I will be listening to this podcast again because it was
so full of amazing information, and I’ll be ordering myself a copy from Amazon
tonight and also copies for Addison’s teachers this year. I think that this
kind of knowledge is something that not only every parent should have but every
teacher should have because they are very big influences and our kids as well.
So I encourage you to not only look at that book, but also follow Kathy on Facebook.
I'm sure she's a wealth of knowledge. It’s bedtime but I just could not go to
bed without sharing my excitement for this new book that I'm going to be reading.
If you're a parent or a teacher or even a volunteer for a
kids program (like I do for our church program AWANA), I think if you are
involved in kids lives in any way you need to realize what a gift that you're
being given: the gift influence on these young kids. You really need to take
that seriously and do what you can to leave them better than when you first
found them. Can you tell I’m passionate about this? I'm not an official teacher,
but I teach my daughter every day so I feel like I'm a teacher!